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Family Cruise Guide For Beginners

[fa icon="calendar'] May 9, 2017 8:00:00 AM / by Sally Black posted in Family Cruises

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Don't miss the boat on a really fun filled family vacation!  

A family cruise is not only a wonderful family experience, you'll get to visit some of the most beautiful and iconic ports of call in the world.  Modern cruise ships offer sports, activities and entertainment suitable for all interests and ages. Families can choose the amount of togetherness and independence helping to insure the experience is a true vacation experience for every member of the family. With prices starting around $79 per person per night, it's also a wonderful value.

There are simply so many reasons to make this your family's next big adventure.

1. If your family is brand new to the world of cruising....welcome! 

2. Perhaps you were on a cruise a long time back. SURPRISE! Things are incredibly different now. There is simply so much to see and do on a cruise that you probably never thought about.

3. Maybe you don't think your a cruiser. Perhaps you're curious because your friend's family just got back raving about their cruise. Perhaps you're trying to make a dream come true for a spouse or family member. There are a lot of myths out there about cruising so hang in there with us and will help you sort thru fact and fiction.

So if you're completely new to the world of family cruises, a little out of practice or willing to consider a whole new world of travel then -WELCOME ABOARD!

If you're considering a cruise for your next family vacation, you're in great company. 75% of American families say they are interested in taking a cruise vacation. According to Cruise Lines International Association’s (CLIA) 27.2 million passengers are scheduled to set sail on a cruise in 2019.  While that may sound like a lot of people it's less than 1/2 the number of visits to Las Vegas each year. 

Right now the cruise lines are scrambling to keep up with demand.  There are only a handful of shipyards worldwide with the capacity and technology to build these beauties. 13 new ships began welcoming guests in 2018. Shipyard orders for new builds have been placed by all the major cruise lines up until 2027 by which time there is expected to be more than 427  ocean going cruise ships.

Family Cruise Planning Basics

One reason so many folks get overwhelmed trying to do their own travel planning online is because they head to google without any plan. Searching "warm and cheap places to travel" will yield you 398,000,000 results (and we get this question a lot!).  We're looking for an "Affordable family vacation" will give you 610,000,000 offers. 

Who's got time to shift thru all that while waiting in the school pick up line or when your boss isn't looking?

So to efficiently create ANY travel itinerary, you'll need to answer some very specific questions to help you stay focused - otherwise you'll head down a black online hole and everyone will end up watching cat videos for vacation.

Here are the most important, travel planning 101 basic questions you need to define for every trip. 

Do not hit search without a family discussion and answers to these vital questions:

  • What are you travel dates - departure & return
  • Number of adults and children traveling
  • Children's ages (at the time of travel)
  • Where will your be leaving from?
  • Where do you want to go?
  • How do you plan to get there/transportation?
  • What's your travel style?
  • Last but certainly the important...what's our budget?

Answers to these questions will build the framework or skeleton to your vacation itinerary.  You can't build a house without a strong foundation.   All of these answers are interconnected and all of them will influence pricing.  No point in searching sightseeing if the cost of flights to this specific destination is way over budget.

  • When clients come to us looking for help planning a vacation the first thing we ask for are answers to these questions. You'll see them on our request forms. If you call us or we meet you in person, we'll ask you for the same information.

Really good agents will go a step farther. We'll ask to schedule a consultation call, video chat or meeting.  To help you plan a really special, memorable vacation we need to dig a bit deeper. It's not that we're nosey or trying to get all up in your business.  We want to listen and truly understand your vision, goals, needs and desires so that we get all the details perfect.

What's your "Why" for this vacation...Why now? Why this destination?

Why Take A Family Cruise?

This image from CLIA boasts the benefits that cruises offer compared to a land based vacation.  When it comes to parents traveling with children, there are additional benefits that can be very significant in making vacation decisions:

  • Complimentary child care
  • Nursery programs (available for a fee)
  • easy to budget/know the full cost of your vacation up front
  • Supervised teen activities
  • Vacation experience can be customized to please every member of the family
  • Parents can relax and enjoy their own well deserved vacation

How Much Does A Family Cruise Cost?

 A family cruise vacation can be a very affordable option. Cruise prices can start @ $59 per person per night. This price includes an inside cabin with no window, all meals, certain drinks, ship board activities, nightly entertainment and transportation to exotic ports of call. Of course, this is a starting point. From here, the sky is the limit. There's also massive suites that can include everything from private butlers, private jacuzzis and a completely all inclusive vacation experience.  A cruise vacation is also a wonderful option for extended families who may want to spend time together but have different budgets and vacation styles. 

If you're sailing for the first time you'll need some help comparing the costs of different cruise lines.  You may have your heart set on doing an eastern Caribbean sailing on the week that your kids are off from school but your cruise line or ship of choice is sailing a western itinerary that week. Maybe your family prefers a smaller ship with less attractions and more enrichment activities. All of these choices can affect your pricing.

When comparing the cost of a cruise vacation to a resort stay, theme park stay or even a road trip, folks often fail to calculate and compare total vacation package costs. There may be other costs involved like does your family need flights to get to port or can you drive? Does your family need to invest in getting passports for your cruise?

 

What's Included in the Cruise Price?

As we mentioned, cruise prices start on average at around $79 per person per night.  Of course if the budget allows, cruise ships offer extravagant family suites, butler service and plenty of extra perks and amenities. Regardless of what type of cabin your family selects, the price of your cruise fare includes:

  • Your cabin/Accommodations
  • Transportation to visit exciting and exotic ports of call
  • All your family's meals and snacks
  • Certain beverages
  • Complimentary child care starting around 2-3 years of age depending on specific cruise line
  • Daily shipboard activities for all ages
  • Nightly shows and entertainment

 

What's NOT included in Your Cruise Fare?

Some of these items are necessities. Other items on this list will depend on your family's specific circumstances. For example, you may decide to drive to port for a Caribbean cruise but your family will need flights to sail the Mediterranean.  Finally some of on this list are discretionary spending.  You can choose to indulge or not. The choice is up to you:

  • Airfare to get to port
  • Pre-Cruise Hotel
  • Airport/hotel transportation to port
  • Port parking
  • Gratuities
  • Alcohol and specialty drinks (plus tips)
  • Spa Treatments
  • Special fitness classes or personal trainers
  • Sightseeing and port excursions
  • Travel Insurance!!!

Cruise Myths

Part of a travel agents job is to know and understand all the family travel options that are available.  We work like a match maker to connect the right families with the right vacation packages.

Often when I "float" the idea of a cruise vacation to a client, the conversation goes like this:

Client: No Way! I am NOT a Cruiser!!!!

Me: OK, it's your vacation and you're the boss but please help me understand why you say this...have you ever been on a cruise?

Client: NO...I've never been on a cruise ship. I just know I won't like it.

Me: (Sigh)....You do realize you're giving me the exact same argument your kids give you every time you beg them to try a new food?...Something you know is tasty and really good for them.

Most of my parents laugh and get this. Fact is, there are a LOT of myths out there about cruising.

True Confessions time:  When Vacationkids first began in 2000, we didn't offer cruises. I had sailed a few times, always got deathly seasick and I didn't find really anything appealing about it. I personally thought it would be hard for me to convince other parents to take their kids on a cruise if I didn't honestly believe in this type of family vacation.

That was then!....Now things have changed DRAMATICALLY!

Allow me to bust a few Cruise Myths so that you can truly make an informed decision:

Seasickness - I can speak to this with first hand experience. Most ships built in the last 5-6 years have high tech stabilization systems.  Often I can't whether the ship is actually moving or not unless i look out a window.  Your doctor can also prescribe a Scopalamine patch. This looks like a tiny round bandaid that you wear behind your ear.  If I plan to sail on a new ship that I am unfamiliar with or an older refurbished ship I will bring this along "just in case".  There are doctors aboard all ships who can prescribe if need be but it costs more so best to be prepared.  There are also many holistic treatments that others swear by.

Cruises are for Old People - At the time of this writing, Royal Caribbean's Symphony of the Seas is sailing it's inaugural season.  This brand new ship was built with ziplines, a slide that plunges 10 decks, surf simulators, rock climbing, ice skating and water parks....even two story family suites with a slide in it!  This "ain't" your grandma's cruise ship! (Although...this Grandma LOVED it!)

Sailing dates will affect guest population. School break weeks will certainly mean more kids  and larger crowds. Cruise ships do watch and control population during holiday weeks so that ships are not over run with kids. For privacy reason there is no way for me to tell you how many other 11 year old girls will be on the ship for your daughter to make friends with.

We're "Beach-ie" people" - A family cruise will allow you to visit ports of call that offer some of the most amazing beaches in the world.  Many of the cruise lines have invested millions in some of the most spectacular private islands in the world....and a cruise is the only way to visit them.

"A Cruise would be over our budget"  - With cruise prices starting around $59 per person per day and when you consider everything that's included, Cheap family road trip vs family cruise - a cruise will most likely be the winner. Considering cruises can be booked up to two years in advance and we offer free vacation layaway - no brainer.

We don't want to be trapped at sea with a bunch of kids -  Every family friendly cruise ship on the 7 seas has adult only zones where kids are not allowed.

Hurricanes Freak me out! 1.  Ships can sail out of harm's way, hotels and resorts are sitting targets.  2. If your family plans to sail in hurricane season, we'll protect your vacation and investment with travel insurance so that you can change your plans with peace of mind.

Are Ships safe?...I've seen Titanic! - Me too, it's a great flix, I've watched it many times and that song always gets me. The Titanic sank over 100 years ago. Technology, navigation, ship building and safety have changed dramatically. Here's a picture of me testing out one of today's lifeboats during a recent inaugural....and if you're worried about icebergs then head to the Caribbean.

We want to spend more time in our destination sightseeing - Cruise ships transport you while you're asleep.  You can cover a lot of ground and wake up in a new exciting place every day.  Your family can pack and unpack once.  When you're planning a trip with multiple stops like Hawaii or Europe, you'll often lose an entire day of your vacation training, planing or driving.

"I Will Get Fat" - With plenty of delicious healthy menus created by celebrity chefs along with tricked out gyms with trainers and classes, cruise ship dining has changed dramatically from the days of midnight buffets and Captain's formal nights....and if say "I don't want to have to get dressed up", good news is, you don't have to!

We're NOT social butterflies - Many ship activities do encourage families to mix, mingle and make friends while having fun together.  That said there are plenty of private spaces where you can be by yourself, chill and read a good book. If you don't want to share a table at mealtime with other guests you don't have to.

I'm Still Not Sure - There are no vacation do-overs. This is why when we counsel clients, the ultimate choice is completely up to them. 

If there is one important lesson we've learned in our 20 year history of planning thousands of vacations for many different types of families....compromise is often a huge ingredient when it comes to overall family happiness and enjoyment.  Perhaps you, your spouse or one particular family member may not be keen on the idea of a family cruise and ultimately you want to keep everyone happy and save your sanity.

Just know many cruise lines do offer short sailings of 3 nights. If you're family is trying to plan a week long vacation, we can always combine a 4 night hotel or theme park stay with a 3 night cruise so you can test the waters for yourself.

Connect with a Vacationkids Cruise Advisor

Here are some tips to make planning your family's next cruise easy and stress free...

 

Deciding Where to Sail

 Chances are if there is water, your family can visit by cruise ship.  This map illustrates all the places your family can visit on a family cruise. The Caribbean including Mexico, Central America, Bermuda and the Bahamas are the most popular cruise destinations. European Cruises are understandably top sellers too because families can conveniently visit many different countries in a short amount of time. Each day you can wake up in a different country ready to go explore.  Alaska and Pacific/Hawaiian Islands are tied for third place for the same reasons....Lots of completely different adventures covering a lot of territory in a short amount of time.

This deployment graph also points out other amazing destination for family cruises that you may have not considered.  Australia and New Zealand are Island nations perfect for exploring by cruise ship.  Perhaps you've dreamed of exploring Asia or South America but were concerned about the language or culture shock. A cruise makes it VERY easy to explore new worlds with all the comforts of home.

There are so many incredible cruise itineraries and ships to choose from that it can feel very overwhelming.  If you have your heart absolutely set on a particular cruise, a certain itinerary and a specific cabin then you need to book early.  

If you're planning your cruise closer to your departure date (not advised, but hey, life happens)...in many cases, I tell clients, "Your ship will often decide for you".

What does this mean?

If you have a large family that needs connecting cabins or a family suite, it may only be available at your date of booking on one of the three cruises you're considering.  if you want to sail to a specific destination on specific dates, there may only be one or two ships sailing that itinerary.  

How Far in Advance Do you Need to Plan and Book Your Cruise?

This boring graph clearly illustrates the weeks in 2018/2019 when over 6000 primary and secondary schools are on break.  Just think about how many families from those 6000 schools across the country are all out their looking to book cruises, flights and hotels during the same exact holiday weeks.  

Luckily most cruise lines publish their sailing schedules and cabin pricing about 1.5 to two years in advance.  Smart parents know to plan ahead.  The amount of deposit required varies by the length of your cruise, the type of cabin and the number of guests sharing that cabin.  It can range from $200 to $1000. Booking far in advance insures you get the best chances of getting the best availability. it gives parents plenty of time to pay off with free vacation layaway if they so choose.

It's also important to understand all pricing in the travel industry is based on supply and demand.  Cruise ships, airlines and hotels all employ very sophisticated "yield management" systems that automatically adjust prices every time a cabin, hotel room and airline ticket is sold. Hospitality businesses do this to maximize their profits.

SO...now that you understand this very important economic principle, take another closer look at the dates on our graph.  All the peaks, when kids are out of school will be your most expensive times to cruise. On the flip side, see those dips and valleys - that's when you'll get the best perks and cheapest prices.

Nobody can predict the future and life happens. Most cruise lines will allow guests to cancel or change their cruise reservations with little or no penalty between 75-90 days prior to sailing.  This is also final payment time which means you'll need to make sure your cruise is fully paid otherwise your reservation will be cancelled.

Again each cruise line and stateroom reservation comes with different terms, conditions and penalties. Cancellation policies do get steeper the closer it gets to your sail date.  This is why travel protection insurance is HIGHLY recommended.

If you're one of those people who has commitment issues or suffers from FOMO when it comes to sales and discounts, it's important to know travel agents can "babysit" your reservation and apply and better prices, even after you make your deposit.

Choose Your Family's Sailing Style

This list of destinations noted above here are for ocean going cruise ships. When people think of a family friendly cruise they usually envision big family friendly ships with waterparks, slides, sports and plenty of activities to keep the kids happy.

Did you know there are plenty of other cruises styles to choose?

River Cruises to different European, North American and Asian cities used to be synonymous with retirees. So many grandparents wanted to share these amazing experiences with their grandkids that Ama Waterways built new ships specifically for families to set sail on the rivers of the world.

There's also Expedition Cruises for those families who really want to get  out into nature and become world class explorers. Imagine getting up close and personal with the creatures of the Galapagos, Panama, Iceland, Norway or Antarctica.  These family adventures are about as far away from a Captain's table formal dinner as you can get. Activities on board include naturalists and photo safaris.

Small family groups of extended families can even charter their own ship and crew. Visit tucked away Croatia islands or

 

Work with an Experienced Travel Agent

This is especially true for first time cruisers. There are a lot of planning decisions you'll need to make in order to get it right. So many people try their hand at DIY travel planning thinking they will save a buck or two. After a short time online they find themselves dazed, confused and frustrated by millions of choices, low ball pricing and other people's opinions. This often leads to travel hassles and higher costs. Use the services of an experienced Travel agent.  

Did you know the cost of working with a travel agent is already included in the advertised cruise line prices you see online?   When YOU do all the research and work it's the cruise line that pockets extra profits.  Meanwhile, you're not getting the care and service you deserve. When you understand how a travel agent works you can appreciate how they can save you money and time while protecting you from costly travel mistakes. Travel agents are experts at calculating vacation package costs.  We help insure you get the most value for your vacation dollar, stay in budget and know all your costs up front and not after it's too late.

Vacationkids often has exclusive deals and perks that you won't find anywhere else. Your agent will consult with you, listen to your family's wishes, wants and needs to insure you get the perfect vacation experience.  In addition, they have expert insights and insider tips that can make your cruise even more memorable. PS...did you know I've created training programs and speak at travel industry events teaching other travel agents how to help families plan family cruises?

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Price Comparison of Different Family Cruises

[fa icon="calendar'] Apr 4, 2017 8:08:00 AM / by Sally Black posted in Family Cruises, Affordable Family Vacations

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Do you find yourself "lost at sea" trying to compare prices on a cruise vacation for your family?

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Planning an Australia Family Vacation

[fa icon="calendar'] Mar 28, 2017 8:00:00 PM / by Sally Black posted in Family Cruises, Family Vacation, family adventure vacation

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Australia has quokkas, kangaroos and koalas. Kids of all ages (especially grown ups) are enchanted with this idea of connecting with Australian wild life.

That said Australia is SO much more! It's a perfect destination for newbie travelers, intrepid explorers and everyone in between. It's easy to navigated if this is your family's first time traveling overseas and they speak the same language...well, sort of. If your family are experienced travelers Australia offers boundless activities and a world of extreme adventures.

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How Much Do You Know About Visiting The Galapagos?

[fa icon="calendar'] Mar 24, 2017 12:35:47 PM / by Sally Black posted in Family Cruises, family adventure vacation

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A visit to the Galapagos Islands of Ecuador tops the "to do" list of many an animal lover and explorer.  It's such a remote and fascinating destination where you'll see and experience adventures like no other place on earth.

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2017 Family Vacation Plans

[fa icon="calendar'] Feb 13, 2017 10:45:25 AM / by Sally Black posted in family resorts, Family Cruises, Affordable Family Vacations, Family Vacation

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Have you made your  reservations yet for your family vacation yet?  

Januaray & February are the most popular months for making vacation reservations. if you're a busy parent juggling homework projects, Karate, dance recitals, work and oh yes...a life, time can whiz by. Before you know it you're faced with another boring staycation.  Let's NOT let that happen!  You and the kids deserve better than that.  We've put together a list of ideas to help inspire you to escape your everyday.

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Vacations with Adult Children

[fa icon="calendar'] Jan 21, 2017 2:41:01 PM / by Linda Griffith posted in Family Cruises

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When Can I Get the Best Deal On A Family Cruise?

[fa icon="calendar'] Jan 20, 2017 1:09:56 PM / by Sally Black posted in Family Cruises, Affordable Family Vacations

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Say "HELLO" to Wave Season!

In the travel biz, Wave Season runs from January until March. It's during the coldest months of the year when everyone wants to "wave godbye" to snow and set sail on ocean waves.
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Final Payment for Cruises

[fa icon="calendar'] Feb 16, 2016 10:10:00 AM / by Sally Black posted in Family Cruises, Affordable Family Vacations, Disney Vacation Planning

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Each cruise line has their own rules when it comes to making final payments for your cruise vacation.  Final payment dates also determine when the cancellation penalties kick in.  These rules also influence the amount of time available for vacation payment plans and the time we have available for vacation layaway.

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Travel Trends from the NY Times Travel Show

[fa icon="calendar'] Jan 14, 2016 8:27:29 AM / by Sally Black posted in family vacations, Family Cruises, Affordable Family Vacations

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The New York Times Travel Show is a very anticipated annual event and 2016 was no exception.  It is open to the public and draws close to 30k people during this three day event. This year Vacationkids was humbled and honored to participate in an expert's panel hosted by the Family Travel Association along with Laura Begley Bloom of Yahoo Travel and Elaine Alimonti of Lonely Planet

Besides answering traveling questions for parents and press, the event gave me the opportunity to meet so many clients and social media friends face to face. The NY Times travel show is a prime opportunity to hear about all the latest news, products and trends in travel from all parts of the globe. There is so much to see and learn, even for "experts".  Here's my top 10 of  stand-outs out for 2016....

  • Multi-generational travel continues to be the big buzz word and trend across the entire industry.  There is less and less differentiation between kid specific and Adult only  travel products.  Resorts, cruises and tour companies are offering more and more products to help bring families together and satisfy everyone with a balance of amenities and activities.  We continue to see more kid friendly luxury travel products. One prime example is how River Cruise companies are offering more and more family ships and sailings. Great news for parents and Grandparents looking to share experiences with their little ones.
  • Marriage equality has lead to huge growth in destination gay and lesbian weddings.  The prediction is that as more gay and lesbian couples become parents there will be an increased need for inclusive family vacations for these children.
  • Volunterism Vacations are growing in popularity, especially with millennials and families.  We're seeing more and more child friendly options here with family tours like Gadventures Planeterra and Carnival Cruise Lines new Fathom Cruises
  • The Cruise industry continues to grow and expand. A total of 7 new ships were added in 2015 with a total passenger capacity of 18,813.  From 2016 to 2017, 15 more new cruise ships will come online which will nearly double cabin capacity.  Considering only 24% of the U.S. population have ever sailed on a cruise,  more local ports, more destinations and new on-board/on-shore activities that match demands of consumers.
  • It's not just about the destination...it's all about the experience. Looking for a unique vacation, how about a luxury South Pacific Freighter cruise to Tahiti or learn about Mustangs (not the car - the nearly extincted horses in South Dakota.
  • Parents always worry about keeping their kids happy and healthy, especially when they hit the road.  The Center for Disease control has revamped their Traveler's Health website.  It's now much more user friendly. Parents can search every country on the planet, filter by the type of trip AND get specific pediatric health tips just for kids.
  • Lonely Planet Kids has a whole new library of fantastic titles that will engage and inspire explorers of all ages.  These books are the kind that kids will cherish and parents will enjoy reading over and over again.  This kid can't wait to start filling the shelves for her grandson! Best kid gifts EVER!
  • Tours By Locals is like the Uber of guided tours. Whether by land or by sea connect with locals who are experts in their own back yards.

If there is one criticism that I have about the New York Times Travel show it really needs to become more family friendly.  I would love to see lots more kids specific activities, events and learning.  I believe the travel industry needs to come together to help raise and nurture our next generation of vacationers, travelers and world explorers.  The most exciting thing I heard at the show was a rumor that my wishes just might come true in 2017.  Finger's crossed and stay tuned.....

 

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Why You Should Consider a Caribbean Cruise

[fa icon="calendar'] Jan 12, 2016 10:30:00 AM / by Sally Black posted in Family Cruises, Affordable Family Vacations, Teen Vacations

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Sometimes I get weird reactions from clients when I suggest a Caribbean cruise might be the perfect fit for everything they've listed on their vacation wish list....
 
Client: I am NOT a Cruiser!!!!

Travel Agent: What makes you say that? Have you ever been on a cruise before?

Client: NO, I just know I won't like it.

Travel Agent: (Sigh)....You do realize you're giving me the same argument your kids give you every time you beg them to try a new food?...Something you know is tasty and really good for them.
Will you at least consider the benefits of a cruise for your next vacation?

Many people have HUGE misconceptions about cruise vacations. They "KNOW" they won't like a cruise without ever having stepped foot on a ship. They have fully convinced themselves based on their imagination, propaganda or perhaps an experience somebody had 20 years ago.

If you're the type of person who hates everything other than that which you already know, please don't bother reading the rest of this post. This information is not for you. Go and hate your vegetables someplace else.

If you're at least a curious sort of person, then I invite you to read on.

A  Caribbean cruise is not just about a ship, it's about an entire Caribbean vacation experience that offers so many unique choices and options. If you haven't at least considered a vacation on board a cruise ship then you are literally "missing the boat".

Each and every passenger on board a cruise has the personal freedom to create and enjoy a truly customized vacation experience. As the author of "Fearless Family Vacations - Make Everyone Happy Without Losing Your Mind". Offering a vacation option to my clients that truly has something to make every member of the family smile makes me a huge proponent of family cruise vacations.

Cruise vacations are one of the fastest growing segments of the travel industry. Ship builders cannot keep up with the high demand for bigger, better, more bad ass cruise ships. This is all very surprising when you consider less than 15% of Americans have taken a cruise vacation.

Most people don't fully understand how travel agents Work. It's my responsibility to offer my clients different options, great values so they can enjoy the very best vacation experiences available. I'm not into twisting any arms here. At the end of the day, the final decision is entirely up to you.

Here is the top cruise "myth list" that we travel agents hear time and again. If your mind is open, you'll understand why we travel agents chuckle sometimes. You'll also learn about the many vacation benefits that cruise vacations offer, especially for families. It might just turn you a believer and a first time cruiser....

"A Cruise would be WAY too Expensive"
- Family cruise prices start around $75 per person/per day. This price includes your cabin, gourmet meals, ship board activities, Broadway style shows, free child care, taxes and port fees. It makes planning and budgeting for your family vacation MUCH easier. 70% of Americans live within a one day car ride to a cruise port. This allows families to visit exciting Caribbean and Mexican ports of call while saving the expense of airplane tickets. A family cruise vacation often works out to be cheaper than taking a family road trip. Cruise lines post their schedules and rates about 1.5 years in advance and we can set up affordable payment plans.

"We're Beach People, Not Cruisers" - Guess what...Cruisers get to spend time at the beach. As a matter of fact, you can visit 3-4 world class beaches all in the same week! Most cruise lines even own their own private Caribbean islands with amazing white sand beaches and crystals waters. We're talking beach nirvana here people and the only way you'll ever get to experience their warm waters and white sand if by cruise ship. Oh and if you want a room with a great ocean view, the BEST ocean views happen while at sea! Don't forget to wave to the friendly dolphins as they spin past your balcony.

"We Don't Want to Stuck on a Boat with Crowds of People" - Most guests on a cruise ship are at the pool, at the spa, skydiving, skating, surfing, shopping, zip lining, swimming, at the casino, eating gourmet meals, watching movies, practicing their putts, water sliding, playing basketball, rock climbing, taking a class, relaxing, dancing, having a drink, getting in shape, enjoying a show, at the kids club, at the movies, listening to live music, having fun with friends...Oh, and some days people actually get off the ship to do a million other things in port. Guests on board a cruise ship are never all in the same place at the same time. This is why you'll never feel crowded. If this sounds like being "stuck" to you then maybe you should consider a "staycation" instead?


"Cruises are for Old People"
- Uh-NO! Well... ok, you probably will see some white hairs skydiving and rock climbing but cruises are not for the nursing home mindset. As you can see from all the activities just mentioned here, family cruise ships don't cater to old people. Yes, there are some luxury ships and sailings for adults only. The activities there are geared for older baby boomers. Family friendly cruise ships offer children's programs for babies right on up. They do an especially terrific job offering a wide range of activities for tweens and teens (often the most "discerning" of all guests). Actually cruise vacation on board a family friendly ship is ideal for a multi-generational vacation because there are so many choices of activities.

Speaking of teenagers, age does matter here. Most resort rates are charged according to the ages of their guests. Generally hotels define "children" as being under the age of 12. Once they turn 13, they are charged full adult rate. Instead, cruise ships charge by the number of guests sharing each cabin - age doesn't matter. The 1st and 2nd passengers sharing a cabin are charged a higher rate (aka "adult" rate) and 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th passengers (depending on cabin size) are charged at a much lower rate(aka "kids prices"). This offers families with tweens, teens and even those 20 something full nesters some really significant savings.

"I Don't Want To Be Trapped at sea with a Bunch of Kids" - Rest assured every family friendly cruise ship, including Disney, offers adult-only activities, shows and areas that are completely off limits to children. Truth be told the kids probably don't want to be trapped at sea with a bunch of adults either. They want to make new friends and have a fun vacation of their own. Family ships offer marvelous kids clubs, separated into age groups that offer supervised activities all day long. Cruise vacation offer families balance. There are plenty of activities that will bring families together. There are also plenty of activities to keep the kids busy so parents can relax and enjoy a "real" vacation of their own.

Speaking of cruise kids clubs, most will provide supervised child care while ships are docked in port. This means parents can enjoy a museum visit in peace, play a round of golf or go scuba diving with the knowledge that their kids are entertained and safe. Resort kids clubs require parents be present on resort grounds whenever their children are at the kids club.


"We Want REALLY Experience a Destination"
- A cruise ship will allow you to "SEA" more. It "travels" while you're comfortably asleep. Each day you wake up in a brand new destination ready to have fun or explore. For example, A Caribbean Cruise allows you to easily visit 3-4  different islands, countries or ports of call. To repeat this itinerary on land, you would lose a vacation day between each stop - getting to the airport, waiting for the flight, hopping to another island, getting a ride/car, checking into your next hotel (hopefully your room is ready), packing/unpacking, find someplace to eat. You would be traveling  and not experiencing it. On a cruise ship you would wake up to a delicious breakfast, spend your day visiting exotic destinations and beautiful beaches, return to a gourmet meal and enjoy a show. If your preferred destination is near water, chances are it's easier to get there by a cruise.

"Cruise Ship Cabins are Claustrophic" - Cruise ship cabins range from budget-friendly inside cabins without windows to palatial, two story suites with glass walls, grand pianos, butlers and wrap around balconies that will sleep a small army...and everything in between. All of these choices can be found on the same ship. Actually many of the newer ships feature "virtual" windows now so you have still have a window without having to pay for one.

Some parents crave a little privacy for "romance" while on a family vacation (if you get my drift here). Cruise ships allow guests to select EXACT cabin where they want to sleep. This way parents can get two side by side cabins/rooms with a door inside to connect the rooms. At a hotel, guests can "request" adjoining rooms but it's more likely parents will end up sharing a room with their kids down the hall from one another instead spending time with each other.

"My ___Gets REALLY Seasick"
- Just about every family has one member who suffering from motion sickness. Sailing on a cruise ship is different than being on a personal watercraft, ferry boat or amusement ride. The new generation of cruise ships come fully equipped with computerized stabilization systems that make for incredibly smooth sailing. Please consider the source here... I say this as someone who is very sensitive to motion sickness. Recent sailings have left me nausea free, even during stormy days at sea! As mentioned above, you can choose a cabin mid-ship that offers the lease amount of motion. Choice of destinations can also minimize this concern. Rest assured there are plenty of remedy options to help alleviate any discomfort and have you ready for fun. In addition, medical staff is always on board. If your still worried, consider a River Cruise which will keep you far away from open waters.

"We Hate Dressing Up" - Great, cause you don't have to. Years ago cruise ships required formal attire and even captain's dinners complete with tuxedos and beaded ball gowns. Yes, these experiences are still available should you choose, but the key word here is "choice". If you don't want to dress up, it's not required. Grab a slice of pizza in your bathing suit. Bite into burger on the pool deck in your shorts. Enjoy a casual dinner in a theme restaurant or peruse the buffet...I would highly suggest that you DO dress in at least a robe when your room service order arrives!

"Hurricanes!!!" - Hurricane season in the Caribbean runs from June to October. Bear in mind the "Caribbean" covers a HUGE geographical area. A storm in one area does not affect every port of call. That would be like saying you shouldn't travel to Texas because New York is getting hit with a major snow storm! If you have any travel concerns regarding hurricanes, cruise ships are a much safer bet! Cruise ships can move. All ships closely monitor the weather. A captain can change course with the flick of a switch. Resorts are stuck in one place. If there is a storm on the horizon, hotel guests must either to evacuation or hunker down and hope for the best.

"I'll Get Fat" - Cruise ships are known for their food, delicious food. Just about every ship offers restaurants or menus created by celebrity Iron or Rock-star chefs. Many of these menus now offer healthy, organic choices in addition to cupcake shops and the chocolate midnight buffet. There are fully outfitted gyms, sessions with personal trainers and you can always opt to take the stairs instead of the elevator. The choices are all up to you.

"Cruise Ships Are Not Safe" - Parents naturally worry about safety when it comes to their children. Cruise ships often sensationalize in the press. If there is a an outbreak of norovirus on a cruise ship it's all over the 6 o'clock news but you NEVER hear about anything like that happens at your kid's school or at "the happiest place on earth". Do you honestly believe bad stuff never happens at Disney? Think about it people - Disney owns ABC news. Just saying!

Cruise ships must constantly undergo Coast Guard inspections. They follow strict international rules, known as Safety of Life at Sea (SOLAS). Everyone must participate in a "muster drill" for safety. This includes instructions on locating and putting on life jackets and finding your assigned lifeboat. The odds are much higher that something bad will happen driving your kids to school than while on a ship at sea.

"I've seen the movie Titanic"...
- Me too, great movie! If you're worried about icebergs I might suggest a Southern Caribbean sailing instead of Antarctica or the north Atlantic. You might want to pass on any destinations like Alaska or Northern Europe with their Glaciers. Last time I checked Aruba doesn't have any icebergs, or hurricanes for that matter.

I still dunno....? - It's true, seeing is believing. Many major family friendly cruise lines offer 3 day itineraries. These are shorter cruises are wonderful opportunity to experience a cruise ship without a huge investment of time or money. This too is a great way to test the waters for a long weekend or to get a "real vacation" after spending a few days in a Florida theme park. Just please know cruise line use their older ships for these shorter itineraries and usually start beginner service staff on these sailings.  They save the best ships with all the most amenities and their best service teams for the 7 night sailings and longer.  A 3 night cruise will work for a test but just know it falls short of being the best of the best.

If you're still a bit leery when it comes to trying new things, sometimes having some moral support helps. Invite friends and family along to help build your confidence. Cruise vacations are IDEAL for creating group camaraderie. As mentioned earlier, it's a great way to bring the entire family together with multi-generational vacation. PLUS...if you invite a enough people along and you can benefit from the power of group buying power and can quickly earn yourself a free cruise!

Hopefully your mind has a least been opened to a new world of cruise possibilities. If you have a dream destination in mind and it's located near a body of water then a cruise vacation may just be the perfect vacation for you. Be sure to speak to a travel agent who can help you navigate the waters.

 

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